Empowering self-aware women to feel wildly confident in sex, intimacy & relating.
OFFERINGS:
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Unlock Your Authentic Sexual Expression, Reclaim Your Pleasure & Cultivate Extraordinary Intimacy.
Somatic Sex Coaching incorporates principles from Somatic Sexology, Neo-Tantra, and holistic coaching to create a safe and trauma-informed space for you to work towards your goals in the realms of sex, intimacy, and relating.
Discover the wisdom of your body, connect to your pleasure, and gain practical, tangible tools and practices that empower you to become your most erotically alive and sexually liberated self.
Book a FREE Connection Call to begin your journey.
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Discover Self-Paced Mini Courses, Workbooks & Free Pleasure Practices
Explore a library of resources specifically designed to support you in discovering your authentic sexual expression, access deep pleasure and cultivate extraordinary intimacy.
Practical Pleasure:
12 Simple Pleasure Practices - $69Cultivate Extraordinary Intimacy:
30 Questions to Go Deep with Your Lover - $19 -
Need a Sexpert?
Ruby specialises in providing expert insights and education on everything s-x and intimacy.
Whether it’s writing for you or facilitating workshops and educational trainings, she’d love to hear from you.
Email me at ruby@ruby-josif.com with your enquiry.
You deserve to feel connected to your body, clear in your desires and confident in expressing what you need. Whether intimacy has begun to feel disconnected, performative or obligatory, this work helps you rebuild a more embodied relationship with pleasure, desire and self-trust, so sex can feel more present, fulfilling and authentically yours.
“I truly felt held with Ruby and cannot recommend her services enough. I can't wait to continue my journey with the foundations we have worked on laying together." - H
YOUR COACH RUBY:
With nearly a decade of experience in sexuality and intimacy, Ruby supports women to feel more connected, confident and expressed in their bodies, pleasure and relationships. Drawing on Somatic Sexology, Neo-Tantra and counselling, her trauma-informed approach is grounded, holistic and deeply non-judgmental.
At the heart of her work is a commitment to authentic expression, self-trust and embodied intimacy.
This is vulnerable work, it’s normal to feel unsure about opening yourself up. Book a free call with Ruby to feel into the work at your own pace.
WHAT OUR CLIENTS ARE SAYING:
Ruby is a beautiful coach and has brought so much clarity and healing into my life in our 6 sessions together. My relationship with myself has grown and developed so much during our container. Feeling much more connected to myself and my body.
— K
Ruby went above and beyond for me, making me feel comfortable and confident every step of the way. Having a sex coach was extremely out of my comfort zone but I can't recommend this experience with Ruby enough. She pours so much love and effort into your pleasure and confidence, it was apparent over the way she got so excited over any break through. She gave me the tools and knowledge to move fourth with my journey, and I will definitely reach out again should I need any further help with my sex life and relationship to self. She made me see sex in a totally different way. I would most definitely recommend her, you will not regret it and be overwhelmed with love and kindness in a beautiful container.
— B
I have been continuously working with Ruby in her 1:1 containers for the last year focussing on opening and reconnecting back to my womb and my woman. Her professionalism, grace, patience, depth and understanding within her work is nothing short of amazing. The guidance and safety she brings to holding me within these containers has been healing and expansive at the same time. She has helped me integrate my feelings of weakness, shame, guilt and abandonment of my womb, pleasure and my essence as a woman into love, curiosity, softness and power.
— N
I feel so much more in my body, have developed a much stronger relationship with myself AND have attracted in the most loving and special man. Ruby is so knowledgeable and supportive and I couldn’t recommend her enough!
— E
For the first time, my confidence as a woman was not something I had to strive to ‘achieve,’ but something that was gradually unveiled as the frost of my insecurities, fears, and smallness effortlessly melted right before my eyes. I am so grateful to have met this new, more confident, more embodied version of myself, and Evoke left me with the tools to continue expanding and delving deeper into this exploration, even after the container has ended.
— C
I chose to work with Ruby because I felt she could really ‘see’ me. Beyond the external layers so many people get fooled by, she can see the truth of who I am as a sexual and spiritual woman, and I knew I would be in safe hands. I trusted her ability to hold space, to hold a firm and well boundaried container where all of me was welcome, and what ever came up during a yoni massage would be ok. Our session with Ruby was a gift of love. One that has changed me as a woman, and put me in back touch with my deep self love, sexuality and power.
— E
Working with Ruby has genuinely changed my life. What started as a journey into intimacy has unfolded into something much bigger - her teachings on embodiment, sensuality, and the feminine have become a part of how I move through the world. I’m often surprised by how these tools show up in unexpected moments, helping me navigate challenges, relationships and even simple day to day things with more presence, awareness and acceptance of what is.
I never could have imagined how deep and far reaching this work would be. My greatest wish is that every woman has the opportunity to experience this kind of transformation.
— A
The amount of growth and acceptance I have built for myself whilst working with Ruby has been incredible! I felt incredibly happy and proud of myself when reading back through my goals I set for myself with her on my last session.
I have left this experience feeling so much more in touch with my wants, needs, and confident in my abilities to set boundaries with myself and others.
— A
I am single (and not sleeping with anyone) and haven’t been while working with Ruby. I had this desire to work with her but thought i really couldn’t because i wasn’t having ‘sex’, and you need to be in order to work with a sex coach, right!? Ohhh was i so wrong…
The relationship I’ve grown and developed with myself during our container is magical and more than i could ever have imagined.
My self pleasure and self love is 100x more connected , I’m in my body throughout day so much more (and out of head!) and I’ve developed more compassion & patience for myself.
— K
Ruby’s capacity to help me unfold and tap into my body, my womb and my yoni was nothing like I had ever experienced. I was able to melt into the journey and be totally unaware of anything else going on. The shifts and awareness it brought me to where I had been hiding, shamed and numb, and her ability to help me transmute that meant I am now connected to myself in an entirely different way.
Thank you Ruby, from the bottom of my heart, your healing and medicine is one of a kind and I am forever grateful for you.
— C
Wow what a truly uprooting experience I had with Ruby. What was achieved in 6 weeks blows my mind. Ruby held so much space for me, whatever emotions I was experiencing. From tears to break through everything felt like such a celebration of love.
I loved the suggestive homework tasks Rubs left me with at the end of each session and there was always support between each session as blockages or thoughts came up.
I truly felt held with Ruby and cannot recommend her services enough.
I can't wait to continue my journey with the foundations we have worked on laying together.
— H
I had an undeniable feeling I needed to attend a local dating event only 2 weeks after our last call. I met a man there who is now my boyfriend, and the most incredible man ever! He communicates openly and honestly, shares his emotions, reflects, meets my needs, and orgasms are happening on a regular basis and are amazing.
I feel so grateful for our sessions, and truly feel my goals were met, plus the added bonus of an incredible partner which I wasn’t expecting. Now that I have this relationship it makes all the other experiences make complete sense. Like “ooooh this is how it’s meant to feel”.
— L



